The Benefits of Staying Active in The Face of Adversity as Told By 16 Disabled Athletes

In the month leading up to the kick-off of the 2024 Paralympics in Paris, Navigating Blindness featured sixteen blind and low-vision athletes. These athletes shared their adventures and their thoughts about why it’s so important to give disabled children the opportunity to participate in a wide range of activities. Below you will meet the participants and read about how staying active helped them overcome adversity.

Kai Owens (Instagram)

Our very own Kai Owens who lost his sight at the age of ten to ABCA4 retinopathy and autoimmune retinopathy shared a short video of himself skimboarding at our local beach. For him, watersports relieves anxiety and helps him feel included with a great group of ‘beach’ friends he grew up with. (You can watch him skim by clicking here.)

Kai also shared three videos of himself from a brothers’ trip to the Oregon Coast. In one video, he is seen crossing a stream on a large fallen log by navigating with his white cane. (Click here to watch.) In another video, he’s carefully navigating across a beach filled with boulders. (Click here to watch.) In the last video, Cash and Kai are at the summit of God’s Thumb formation. When we asked if it was scary Kai said, “Yes, but the fresh air, elevation changes, sounds of the wind and waves, and being with Cash was great! I crushed it!” (Click here to watch.)

Early on our family discovered that brothers’ trips were a great way for the boys to bond while doing activities they love. Their first brothers’ trip was to Erik Weihenmayer’s NYC Summit! Speaking of Erik, we featured him, too!

Erik Weihenmayer (Instagram)

Erik Weihenmayer’s blindness was caused by juvenile retinoschisis, which affected his vision from birth and eventually caused him to go completely blind by his early teens.

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The Courage to Share: Blogs by Moms of Blind/VI kids

In the early days of Kai’s diagnosis I scoured the web for blogs written by sighted parents of kids who were losing their vision. I could not find any. Sure, I could find advocacy and awareness web sites and consumer groups, but I craved emotional honesty from another mom. I wanted to read her feelings, understand her struggles, and celebrate her wins. I wanted to know her feelings about her child’s inclusion (or lack thereof) and understand the anger and frustration behind her educational accessibility battles. And, most importantly, I wanted to know what it felt like to be on the other side: to have raised a child who became a strong self-advocate, who is highly-educated and employed. I wanted to know my child could beat the grim statistics. Now, 7 years later, I have found 6 moms (+ me) who are blogging about their experiences and I am so excited to share them with you!

Each of these blogs is written by a sighted mom of a blind or VI child(ren). Our kids range in age from 1-20, they have different diagnoses, and our philosophies, cultures, and religious backgrounds vary, but what we all have in common is the courage to share. Continue reading “The Courage to Share: Blogs by Moms of Blind/VI kids” →

Hindsight 20/20 Featuring Mary Woodyard

Hi friends, I’m super excited to share another Hindsight 20/20 article. This article was written by Mary Woodyard about raising her son, Tommy, who is currently a senior at the University of Georgia. Tommy also happens to be legally blind. I’m so grateful that Mary took the time to share her wisdom with us parents who are still in the thick of advocating for our children’s accessibility needs in school.

Each 20/20 interview will be unique because blindness is a spectrum and each child, parent, and family has different circumstances, goals, and expectations. As parents, we need to educate ourselves and consider advice from reliable sources — foundations, doctors, teachers, and so on (the list seems endless) — but ultimately, we are our children’s greatest advocates. I strongly believe that other parents who have “been there, done that” are our best resources. So, let’s navigate blindness together!

Alright parents, grab a cup of coffee or your beverage of choice, get comfy and enjoy.

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1. What was the first symptom you noticed and what was your child’s age?
He was born at 26 weeks during what I thought was a normal pregnancy. He had contracted an infection which made him very sick; but, it did not impact me at all. When he was born, there was confusion as to his gestational age. The doctors were not sure if he was 25 weeks or 26 weeks. There was no consensus until he was a month old. Doctors warned me his brain was underdeveloped and felt that he would have GI issues. In addition, he had: a hernia, a hole in his heart and a pound of fluid in his body that was not supposed to be there. They were worried that his brain was not developing. He was 1.9 pounds when he was born. They told me not to worry about his eyes – they would be fine. Continue reading “Hindsight 20/20 Featuring Mary Woodyard” →